This week, Gary Thomas is back, and he’s joining us to talk about grieving expectations in your relationship, how to affair-proof your marriage, and how to make your marriage a fortress. Gary said, “Learning to live without what you once thought was a primary purpose of marriage is necessary to find happiness in marriage.” That’s obviously a huge statement. Therein are vision, expectations for outcomes, and factors for decision-making. So how do we do it? That’s what Gary will unpack in this week’s featured conversation.
If you enjoy this episode with Gary, I’m sure you’ll also enjoy:
- 238: The Top Relationship Mistakes We Make that We Don’t Know We’re Making (feat. Dave and Ann Wilson)
- 230: Rejection in Relationships, Sexual Shame, and Why You Shouldn’t Kiss Dating Goodbye (feat. Kait Warman)
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