You have more knowledge than you've ever had, and somehow you're more tired. More guarded. More prone to walk into a room and see everything wrong with it before seeing anything right. You used to believe things would get better. Now you believe you've simply seen enough to know they probably won't. …
Podcast
496: Christian Self-Help Is Lying to You. Dr. Henry Cloud on Embracing Weakness as the Path to Growth, What Christian Self-Help Gets Wrong About Change, Why Triangulation Destroys Your Relationships, and How “Being Triggered” Has Been Weaponized
You have tried harder. You have read the books, made the commitments, restarted the plan, and believed — genuinely believed — that this time would be different. And yet, five years later, you are looking at the same patterns, the same walls, the same version of yourself you were trying to leave …