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311: Gary Thomas on Grieving Expectations, Affair-Proofing Your Marriage, and How to Make Your Marriage a Fortress

Podcast · October 5, 2022

This week, Gary Thomas is back, and he’s joining us to talk about grieving expectations in your relationship, how to affair-proof your marriage, and how to make your marriage a fortress. Gary said, “Learning to live without what you once thought was a primary purpose of marriage is necessary to find happiness in marriage.” That’s obviously a huge statement. Therein are vision, expectations for outcomes, and factors for decision-making. So how do we do it? That’s what Gary will unpack in this week’s featured conversation.

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