Today, we’re with talking with author, educator, and speaker, Jasmine L. Holmes about how shame compounds, the “gospel” of shame, and how resentment and grief shape our souls. Shame has been a dominant theme in our cultural conversation for decades, but today, Jasmine is bringing a fresh take to the table. About shame, she said “Sometimes shame is hoisted on our shoulders in one big traumatic event, like a big boulder. Other times it adds weight to our shoulders incrementally, one pebble at a time, to where we barely notice the escalating weight.” I resonate with that description a lot, and I’m sure you do, too. So in just a minute, Jasmine will unpack that statement and so much more.
Partner Spotlight:
But first, before we head into today’s featured conversation, today’s episode is brought to you by LMNT. LMNT is an electrolyte drink mix with everything you need and nothing you don’t. It is the perfect combination of sodium, magnesium, and potassium, three things we all need for optimal health. So, I’d love for you to try it, too. Go to DrinkLMNT.com/WINTODAY to get a free sample pack with your purchase. Try it totally risk-free. They’ll give you your money back if you don’t like the product, no questions asked.
Dive Deeper:
If you enjoy this episode with Jasmine, I’m sure you’ll also enjoy the following:
- 323: Eric Johnson on Walking through an Emotional Breakdown, The Danger of Avoiding Emotions, and Wrestling with the Deep Issues of the Soul
- 319: Dr. Alison Cook on The Cocktail of Codependency, Learning Surrender, and the Dysfunction of Spiritual Bypassing
Subscribe to the Podcast on:
Guest Links
Jasmine’s Website | Instagram | Facebook | Get Jasmine’s new book on Amazon!
Review “Win Today”
Click here to read the ratings, or even better, please leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts. Your rating will help the podcast get noticed and positioned on Apple Podcasts.
![475: [Formed.] Are You Suffering? Dr. Craig Keener on The Necessary Theology of Suffering, How to Develop a New Mindset About Affliction, Hurdling Unresolved Disappointment, Why God is Not in a Hurry to Mature Us, and the Pressure That Shapes Us](https://wintoday.tv/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/474-Blog.jpg)
![473: [Formed.] Comfort Won’t Mature You. Dr. Joel Tudman on How We Cheat Ourselves in the Wilderness, Why “Finding Yourself” is a Waste of Time, The Beauty of Being Pulled Apart by the Lord, and Fighting to Stay Agile in a Disruptive Life](https://wintoday.tv/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/473-Blog.jpg)
![472: [Formed.] Will You Kill Entitlement and Self-Pity? Kristene DiMarco Unpacks Rekindling Spiritual Hunger, The Danger in Numbing Boredom, Training Your Soul for Godliness, and Laying Down Your “Right” to Be Offended by Life](https://wintoday.tv/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/468-Blog-150x150.jpg)