• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Win Today: Your Roadmap to Wholeness

Your Roadmap to Wholeness

  • The 7-Step Roadmap
  • Podcast
  • Book
  • Subscribe

339: Debra Fileta, M.A., L.P.C. on Why We Are Not Self-Healers, Our Trigger-Avoidant Culture, Rejecting Passivity, and What it Takes to Reset Your Emotional Health

Podcast · April 19, 2023

This week, my good friend, a professional counselor, Debra Fileta, joins us to talk about why we are not self-healers. We’re also going to explore our trigger-avoidant culture, the need to reject passivity, and what it really takes to reset our emotional health. Debra is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in dating, marriage, and relationship issues, along with a spectrum of mental health disorders. She’s also the author of several books and the host of the Love + Relationships Podcast, a hotline-style show where people call in to get their relationship questions answered! Her popular relationship advice blog TrueLoveDates.com reaches millions of people each year with the message of healthy relationships!

Partner Spotlight:

But first, before we head into today’s featured conversation, today’s episode is brought to you by LMNT. LMNT is an electrolyte drink mix with everything you need and nothing you don’t. It is the perfect combination of sodium, magnesium, and potassium, three things we all need for optimal health, including brain health. So, I’d love for you to try it, too. Go to DrinkLMNT.com/WINTODAY to get a free sample pack with your purchase. Try it totally risk-free. They’ll give you your money back if you don’t like the product, no questions asked.

MEDICAL DISCLAIMER: Before taking any supplement from any of our partners, be sure to discuss the product, its efficacy, and its potential side effects with your medical professional. 

Dive Deeper:

If you enjoy this episode with Debra, I’m sure you’ll also enjoy the following:
  • 279: Dismantling “Project Self” and How to Transform a Generation (feat. Jon Tyson)
  • 276: Victim Consciousness, Heartache, and How Coping Mechanisms Create a False Sense of Health (feat. Dr. Dan Allender)

Subscribe to the Podcast on:

  • Apple Podcasts
  • Spotify
  • iHeartRadio
  • Google Podcasts
  • Stitcher
  • TuneIn
  • RSS
  • YouTube

Guest Links

Debra’s Website | Instagram | Facebook | Buy Debra’s latest book on Amazon!

Review “Win Today”

Click here to read the ratings, or even better, please leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts. Your rating will help the podcast get noticed and positioned on Apple Podcasts.

Filed Under: Podcast

Previous Post: « 338: [heal.] Dr. Ian Smith on Why Metabolic Flexibility is Crucial, Taking Your Muscles to Failure, Why You Need More Stress on Your Body, and Four Keys to Better Sleep
Next Post: 340: Levi and Jennie Lusko on Rejecting Passivity in Relationships, Prolonged Adolescence in Men, How to Suffer Together in Crisis within a Marriage, and the Key to Intimacy »

Primary Sidebar

The Latest Content

  • 516: The Mask Became the Only Self You Know. Chuck DeGroat on The Hidden Faces of Narcissism, Performative Vulnerability, Why Self-Awareness Isn’t Transformation, Narcissistic Traits vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and Healing From a Narcissist
  • 515: Philip Anthony Mitchell on Why The Greatest Threat to the American Church Is the American Pulpit, False Teaching, Exegesis vs. Eisegesis, Biblical Illiteracy and Discernment, the Crisis of Encounter, a Pastor’s Battle With Depression, and Contending for the Faith
  • 514: Pain Isn’t Trauma, and Enabling Isn’t Love. Dr. Les Parrott on What Trauma Actually Is, How to Stop Overthinking, Helping vs. Enabling, Empathy vs. Sympathy, and Why You Need Stronger Shoulders, Not a Lighter Load
  • 513: The Image You Curate Is the Reason You’re So Lonely. Ian Simkins on the Difference Between Being Seen and Being Known, Performative vs. Righteous Vulnerability, Why Our Platforms May Be Discipling Us Into Loneliness, and How Every Table Becomes an Altar
  • 512: What People Call Peace is Just Avoidance and Immaturity. Jonathan Eckert on the Happiness Crisis, Why Comfort Quietly Deforms Us, Joy as the Fuel for Struggling Well, the Cost of Frictionless Living, and the One Hard Thing to Run Toward Today

Be Among the First to Receive the Latest Updates. Sign-Up Now.

Permissions & Privacy Policy

Footer

Let’s Stay Connected

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Search the Site

Copyright © 2026 · SourceRevival Media Group, LLC · All Rights Reserved.