366: Brian Tome on How to Shun Victimhood, Imagination and a Man’s Sexual Appetite, Why Men Aren’t Being Raised Well, and Why a Marriage is the Greatest Team a Man Will Ever Join

This week, we’re continuing our two-part mini-series on forming godly men. As I shared last week on the show, I have a passion for seeing men rise up in purity, power, virtue, integrity, character, compassion, kindness, and strength. And so joining us today to continue the series is author, speaker, and pastor of Crossroads Church in Cincinnati, Brian Tome. Today, he’ll share about how to shun victimhood, harnessing your sexual appetite, why men aren’t being raised well, and why marriage is the greatest team a man will ever join.

MATURE CONTENT ADVISORY: If you usually listen to the podcast in the presence of your younger kids and teens, some of the content shared today will be mature, perhaps not suitable for their young ears, and as such, I want to be responsible to give you a heads-up.

Guest Bio:

Brian Tome is the founding and senior pastor of Crossroads Church, 2017’s third-largest and fastest-growing church in America. Brian has authored four books including his best-seller, The Five Marks of a Man. He also hosts The Aggressive Life podcast. As an entrepreneur, Brian has opened several other non-profits and started Man Camp, a primitive weekend camping experience that has helped tens of thousands of men reclaim the code of manhood. An avid adventure motorcyclist, Brian rides tens of thousands of miles and camps more than 30 nights a year. He is married with three children and lives in Cincinnati, Ohio. Learn more at briantome.com

Dive Deeper:

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Resources Mentioned This Week

• The Five Marks of a Man: Finding Your Path to Courageous Manhood(A Men’s Study on 5 Traits of Godly Masculinity)
• The Five Marks of a Man Tactical Guide: (Interactive Hands-On Study Guide Workbook for Men – For Small Group & Individual Use)
• Healing What You Can’t Erase: Transform Your Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health from the Inside Out
• Truman
• Grant

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